Strength

Spoke to my deceased cousin's wife in a family gathering just now. And I saw a lot of strength in her as compared to being depressed half year ago.

After my cousin's death, it seems to have taken part of her soul away as well. After all, being wife and husband for 15 years is not that short time. I've witnessed the 4 stages in her clearly: from denial, depressed, acceptance and moving on.

Clearly it takes a lot of strength & support to move on. And according to her, its her children that keeps her moving forward. If not, she told me she would have ended her life. Thankfully, her children are fairly mature already.

原来心可以是坚强的。